• Mistress V discusses the good, bad and the ugly of Consensual Blackmail and dominating a married couple (for real–not pretend) in her latest PodCast.
• Kathleen Turner will be appearing on Nip/Tuck next season as a phonesex operator in need of vocal chord repair.
• The best place to find what’s hot in the adult arena? Janes Guide.
• Trixie’s blog is one of the best on the net, as far as I’m concerned. Go there now!
• Amanda Bangs has just opened a hot site with cuckold videos at very reasonable prices: Cuckolds Exposed
• Chef will be returning to South Park in next week’s episode.
• I talk about Fantasy vs. Reality in my monthly column at Sex Kitten.
• The Dirtiest Girl in the World, Princess Jasmine, talks about a wimp and his dicklett in her latest blog entry.
• By the way, if you like perusing blogs, particularly adult ones, check out Gang Bangs in the sidebar.
• If you’re a Brangelina fan, Anderson Cooper will be interviewing the new mother tomorrow on Anderson Cooper 360.
• What’s your Entertainment IQ?
• Johnny Depp is so sexy…and I never realized it until I saw Secret Window.

Did I forget anything? Of course I did.

1. Phone Sex Manual
2. SNL Phone Sex (featuring Paris Hilton)
3. Republican Phone Sex
4. Deaf Phone Sex
5. Phone Sex Tattler
6. Phone Sex T-Shirt (male)
7. Phone Sex T-Shirt (female)
8. Phone Sex DVD (Spike Lee just about nails it.)
9. Phone Sex Bumper Sticker
10. Phone Sex Cartoon (order a mug & get one for me, too)

Your Guess is as good as mine:

Lucy Golden

Spankaroo

Tamara Staples

Night Swimming

Michael Berard

Ok, that might not be quite accurate. But you would agree it’s a great title for a blog entry? Yes?

What I should have said was that a whole bunch of people want my brain. Then again, maybe I was right the first time, because we all know that the brain is the most powerful sex organ. Don’t believe me? Well, I heard it from an expert. So there, wisenheimer!

Ok, I’ll quit kidding around.

It is just going to be a delightfully busy week for me. I’ve completed two artist interviews (Molly Crabapple and Burke Heffner) for Sex Kitten and getting ready to submit them for publication at the site. I just finished a review of a sex toy there, which was published today.

I am being interviewed for Backwash, along with Doxy Wringer, regarding our adventures in the phone sex industry. I am trying like heck (and getting nowhere) to get my professional site updated. Plus I’m in the middle of two books (the best part of my day) Extraterrestrial Sex Fetish, Necrophelia Variations, which I will be reviewing soon. And I am writing my own little stories for Blistered Lips and Delia CD.

And on the personal front: I have to look for a new doctor (my regular GP pissed me off big time), take my mother to her doctor, attend my mother’s care conference, hire a maid (two interviews scheduled) and go to the beauty salon (at a moment’s notice–if someone cancels).

Then there is mail to send, bills to pay, a big decision to ponder (to move or not to move – that is the question), empty cupboards to fill (I hate grocery shopping), directions to read (new iPod and microwave) and just gathering the everyday debris of my life into one neat pile. Oh, and I need to file for an extension on my taxes as my exboyfriend, who has done them for the last three years, is kinda sorta MIA.

And, of course, in between all of this, take calls.

And don’t forget Easter, which, since I’m the slightly co-dependent sibling, I gotta make it happen for everybody.

Hmmm. Amphetamines? Lotsa caffeine?

Or maybe just some old-fashioned gratitude that everybody wants my sex, er, I mean brain?

Also known as orgasm denial, cock control and a whole lot of other things (it’s more or less in the hands of the be-holder), this is a fetish/fantasy that has become quite popular. It happens to be one of my favorite fantasies, as it is a real life game I’ve played since I learned to walk and wiggle my hips. I mean, after all, what’s a good Catholic girl to do when she’s been taught to value her purity but enjoys the attention of smitten boys?

I might even go so far as to say that Tease and Denial is at the heart of all FemDom power exchanges. It’s as simple as this: We got it and men want it. God made it that way, which I think is pretty awesome. Keeps everything in balance and under control.  That would be, ahem, female control.

An important factor in considering this is that a desired fruit tastes twice as sweet when one puts off partaking of its nectar. Obviously, when it comes to sex, very few men have either the capability or foresight to delay gratification. Again, they really can’t help it; they’re wired that way. But, thanks to the lovely grace of femininity, the male animal can be taught. He might not like it, but he really has no other options.   To put it another way:  Good girls tease and good boys endure.

Chastity devices can be employed in worst/best (it’s your call) case scenarios. Some even fantasize about castration. And while it is a particularly fun fantasy (at least for me–oh how evil I can be when it is deserved), I wouldn’t recommend pursuing the fulfillment of that particular figment of illusion in any real-time situation. It would be bloody, painful and permanent. See what I mean about fantasy vs reality? Geeze!

A really great website for those interested in this particular "hobby" is Orgasm Denial, which is sort of a "hang out" for like-minded boys and girls. Although you have to create a member name to particpate, membership is free. And while there are a links to outside merchants and pay websites, David, who created and manages the site, has a lot of freebies available such as chatrooms, picture teases, blog capabilities, an internal mail system and much more. So put on your CB2000 and check it out!

xo, Angela